To San Francisco. Let’s add up the damages.
Gas to drive to and back from Hayward: $10ish
Dinner: $36 (decent Ramen place)
Drinks: $14 (ginger beer for me)
ATM fee: $3 (bar fucks you over w/ cash requirement)
Cover for bar: $5
BART ticket: $10 (I guess to be fair, I still have $5 on my card)
Looks like around $78? And this was a “cheap date,” where the stuff we did was no big deal, and the other person paid for a substantial amount (Uber rides, several of her drinks, her own BART ticket, etc.) Lesson: pretty much anything you go to SF for is going to be expensive. I mean, just to get up there by driving to Hayward, and taking BART, you’re talking about $20. It might be a little cheaper to drive directly, but then you have to pay absurd amounts for parking.